Support for adopted adults

If you are an adopted adult and live in one of our five Local Authorities (Cheshire East, Manchester, Salford, Stockport, and Trafford) we can help you find out more about your birth family history.

This will involve supporting you to access your adoption records and providing information and advice about organisations that can help you to trace members of your birth family, if you make the decision to do so.

Please note: If you were adopted within the Adoption Counts area but are currently living outside of the region, you should seek advice from your current local authority or regional adoption agency who can further support your search.

  • You can begin the search for your birth information and access to your adoption records from the time you turn 18 years of age. Before contacting us, it would be useful for you to apply to the General Register Office (GRO) to request your birth information, if you do not already have it. The GRO will send all relevant information to your local adoption agency, who you will then be advised to contact.

  • Should Adoption Counts be identified as the appropriate agency you can contact us via completing this online form. Depending on when you were adopted, you may be required to attend a counseling meeting, or a meeting with one of our adoption support team. We can advise you on this when you get in touch.

  • Currently meetings to share birth information are being held virtually usually via Microsoft Teams. If you don’t have access to Microsoft Teams we’ll do our best to accommodate you another way. At the end of this meeting, we will give you the documents you need to enable you to request a copy of your original birth certificate. We’ll also advise you how to place your details on the Adoption Contact Register if you want to.

  • If you decide to progress your search to a full ‘access to adoption records request’, a post adoption support social worker will be allocated to your case and they will use the details provided by the GRO to contact the appropriate agency to gain access to your records. Due to the volume of requests for this service, this process may take 6-12 months.

  • Adoption records vary in size and volume. Generally, files contain information about the circumstances of your adoption, including medical and health matters. They may possibly also contain letters or photographs, or other items.

  • Some records may not always be written sensitively and can be upsetting. Archived adoption records may have been compiled when standards of recording and retention of information were different to those which apply today. You might find that the language used, and prevailing values expressed reflect the period in which the file was created and might not be acceptable today. Your post adoption support social worker will support you through this and will be able to explain how adoption law and practice has changed and the significance of these changes.

  • We usually give you a copy of your file notes to take away with you. We will give you any original photographs, letters from birth relatives or certificates, but we will always keep a copy on the file. We may need to redact some of the information that is held in your records. You will not be able to see information about other people, which may be held on your file. This could include reports on your adopters or medical reports that are not about you.

  • Unfortunately, some adoption records may have been lost, damaged or destroyed over time. Your post adoption support social worker will update you on the progress of your request and will advise you should this be the case. An application can be made directly to the Court involved in your adoption should all other searches return no results.

Tracing and Intermediary Services

Once you have received your adoption records and have more information regarding the circumstances of your adoption and your birth family, you may wish to make contact with them.

Adoption Counts does not offer a tracing and intermediary service, however there are independent organisations that may be able to support you in this area.

Please visit our resource hub on this website for more information on who can help.

What if I don’t want contact with my birth family?

Since 30 December 2005 adopted adults and their adult birth relatives have been able formally to register a Veto (a wish for no contact), and adopted adults have also been able formally to register their wish for contact with, or no contact with, specific adult birth relatives. This wish can be changed at any time by notifying the Registrar General.